The Silken Trap

One of the things I love about sissies is their appreciation of femme fashion. This is something we have in common.

Now you might think this is something I’d have in common with cisgender women, but in my experience probably 75% of cis girls are much happier in jeans, tshirts, and plain cotton briefs than wearing 5” heels or outrageous lingerie. And a huge proportion of the women who do like to dress super-girly are just not very nice people. They tend to be snooty and shallow, more invested in brand labels than essential beauty.

Of course this is not true of all cisgender femme girls. There are lots of truly fabulous fashionistas out there. It’s just not as ubiquitous as you might think.

I just finished reading Venus in Furs by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch. (You know, the fellow for whom masochism is named?) And I was surprised by how fascinating I found it. It's a bit slow to start, and of course there's the flowery archaic language to get used to, but once it got going the story itself grabbed me.

The tale involves a man (Severin) who dreams of becoming the slave of the woman he loves (Wanda), and what happens when they agree to make his dream a reality. I won't give away the plot, but much of the fascination of reading it was seeing just how many of the themes and ideas that run through modern femdom fantasies were present back then. (This book was first published 140 years ago!) There's bondage, physical punishments, humiliation, domestic servitude, cuckolding and object fetishes. Even the language is familiar; he speaks eloquently of cruel and strict Mistresses dominating adoring slaves.

There's also a very interesting thread of period morality running through it, preaching against sexism as it was understood in those days.

The novella is quite short, and for anyone with an interest in male submission/female domination I think well worth a read.

Today, let us take a few moments to pay homage to the mesmerizing power of big, natural breasts.

These breasts, btw, belong to Mistress Mayhem. And you can see more of her and her poor smothered slavegirl at PaddedKink.com.

On the whole, guys love bacon. Guys also love porn. So when it occurred to me that I could cleverly combine the two it seemed like a stroke of genius. (Pun fully intended.) Bacon + Porn = Brilliant!

So here, in honor of the New Year - and in hopes that 2011 will contain scads more clever and fun amateur femdom porn - I give you, dear viewers, the very first Bacon Porn:




Click the pic above this sentence to see the promo vid. Click on the next pic to go to my Clips4Sale studio page, where you can acquire the whole thing.

Wouldn't you just love to hand control of your stupid stick over to this Japanese-Irish Goddess?

Yeah, I know you would.

This is the stunningly gorgeous Kelly Shibari and you can see lots more of her at PaddedKink.com.

There's this fantasy I've been having. In it I operate a sort of reverse foot salon, where foot fetish guys pay to worship my feet.

I see myself sitting in the nail salon chair. You know, the special one with the built in massage functions. Except the footbath is replaced by a cushioned headrest; this is where the "customer" lies with his head directly under my feet. He's allowed to press his face against my feet...to kiss, lick, suck...even gnaw on my heel calluses. Until his time is up.

He's naked except for a towel. And he is allowed to keep his hands under the towel, and do as he likes there, so long as his lewd behavior does not draw my attention. If it does, watch out! That's why I keep my riding crop handy and I don't hesitate to use it to chastize masturbatory misbehavers.

Holy FUCK sometimes I long for a foot-slave.

Hiya everybody!

I am OVER THE MOON to announce that I've joined the team of Sex & Love bloggers at Creative Loafing.

Come check out my first post, and be sure to leave me a comment!

I will be a regular contributor, writing about the Tampa Bay area's alternative sexuality scene as well as my adventures as a kinky wife & mom, pro dom, and pornmaker. Feel free to write back to me with your questions, comments, observations and of course if you know about a group or event you'd like to see mentioned.

Did I mention I'm thrilled? I think I'm gonna have to knock off early today and have a champagne lunch to celebrate, hehehe! In case you've never heard of it, Creative Loafing is like the Village Voice for those of us south of the Mason Dixon line. It's got regional issues in most of the major cities, and anybody who's looking for hip entertainment around here turns to CL. I grew up around here, and CL was our beacon of coolness in an era when they rolled up the sidewalks at 8pm. Add that it's my first paying gig as a writer and it's doubly exciting. (Note that we're working with a special writer's definition of "paying gig" that includes peanuts.)

Anyway, please come and check it out!