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garden centers austin tx: Lordy, Lordy, Look Who's Forty!

nospam@example.com (garden centers austin tx) — Sun, 10 Mar 2013 07:57:46 -0600

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slave tia: Tonight's the Night

nospam@example.com (slave tia) — Sun, 10 Feb 2013 06:42:52 -0700

So...it was a bit tamer than the above cartoon, sadly...we had less of a turnout than we had hoped for, and Mistress's health issues made the evening kind of hard on her.

But I love her for trying. And we did have some naughty fun, even if we didnt scratch off anything on my 'kinky bucket list'. I had to ride her cowgirl style at one point, riding her strap on with abandon, revealing my slutty self to everyone! blush

Hoping Mistress writes about it. She writes raunchy stuff better than me!

It was a lovely party Mistress...thank you.

Mistress Erisiana Cherie: Sappy Anniversary

nospam@example.com (Mistress Erisiana Cherie) — Sun, 03 Feb 2013 08:39:51 -0700

Sappy anniversary to you too pet. I love you!

Mistress Erisiana Cherie: The Perfect Cure for a Mid-Life Crisis

nospam@example.com (Mistress Erisiana Cherie) — Thu, 24 Jan 2013 14:13:30 -0700

That's actually one of the party games I have in mind TiedUpSissy69...along with the usual spin the bottle & truth or dare I'm plotting a little predicament bondage. evilgrin

Perhaps you could help me out & suggest ways that I could tie two (or more) sissies together so that if one's face moved away from the other's crotch they'd be causing suffering in their own genital regions.

TiedUpSissy69: The Perfect Cure for a Mid-Life Crisis

nospam@example.com (TiedUpSissy69) — Thu, 24 Jan 2013 10:20:22 -0700

May I respectfully suggest that for some sissies, being tied up to another sissy in various intimate and humiliating positions would be an excellent way for them to contemplate their status in the midst of this group.

Naturally, photos should be taken to preserve what works best.

tia: My magical mystery tour

nospam@example.com (tia) — Mon, 15 Oct 2012 13:42:20 -0600

I'm so glad I could give a hedonistic day of sunshine and pampering Mistress!

You deserve it....

I love you!

--your loving pet

Ryan: Playtime

nospam@example.com (Ryan) — Tue, 25 Sep 2012 07:03:30 -0600

Great blog!

shiggydiggy: It don't matter if you're black or white

nospam@example.com (shiggydiggy) — Fri, 17 Aug 2012 00:15:57 -0600

It would be a lie to say that no racist has this fetish just like it would be a lie to say that no sexist has a feminization fetish however i don't think either is true for the majority who have those fetishes.

As with regular feminization, most of it is subconscious so nobody really knows what exactly triggers a sexual response in a submissive male by wearing stockings or a maid costume. A lot of the crossdressing community seems to be fixated on very specific ultra-feminine clothing like stockings. I don't think anybody is born with that, i believe that the brain categorizes not just male and female clothing from an early age but also things like age and class. Many women have fetishes for men in costumes that singify high status and authority such as police men or in ancient societies probably the military, nobles and kings. I think it will take 2 or 3 decades until we understand the brain good enough to make a factual statement about this behavior but i believe a very interesting test that is sort of exploring this subject at the moment is the "Project Implicit"

https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/
(Click on "Demonstration")

The aim of this test is to present a method that demonstrates the conscious-unconscious divergences much more convincingly than has been possible with previous methods.

The test starts by asking you about your race, and any biases that you may possess – as a caucasian male, it asked me about my feelings and preferences towards white and black people. Then, you’re shown a series of pictures of white/black faces and good/bad words. You need to then associate those pictures and words with white/black and good/bad on the right and left of your screen.

As the test progresses, words will get swapped around, for example, putting “White People” and “Bad Words” on the same side and vice versa. The idea is that if this becomes tricky, it might mean you have a preference for one race or the other. I felt this seemed like a bit of an exercise in hand-eye coordination more than anything else, but i can see what the researchers are getting at. It also has tests on various other subjects, including gender.

Personally i like both crossdressing and interracial and i'm lucky enough to have a gay black friend to act my fantasies out :3

I hate neither black people nor women, i don't look down on them in any way, i don't find it demeaning to get fucked by a black guy or dress up in girly clothing, i just find it very hot, but as i said in the beginning i know for a fact that there are racist, sexist and homophobic people that enjoy this stuff too, i met some right wing "libertarian" tards on places like 4chan and reddit who admitted to it, naturally they were very uncomfortable with their subconscious desire to see their girlfriend fucked by a black man but that's their problem. Knowing that i share the same fetish as these people is certainly a little bit unsettling but i know personally that in my day-to-day life things like ethnicity and gender have never mattered, i'm 18, i grew up in germany and we don't have the same type of ghetto stereotype of black people as you do in the USA. The only minority in germany that has this negative stereotype are turks, whom i don't like in the same way as black men.

I think there will always be some who deem it racist and sexist and i can understand why but if so then i think it's better to manifest itself in this manner than in a violent manner like with neonazi groups or wifebeaters.

multiperv: Things I love about sissies #1

nospam@example.com (multiperv) — Wed, 25 Jul 2012 09:10:29 -0600

Thank you very much for this post. I've often wondered what the female dominant gets out of feminization of a male other than perhaps straight humiliation and this gives me a lot of insight.

slave tia: Purging Thoughts

nospam@example.com (slave tia) — Thu, 05 Jul 2012 05:08:19 -0600

Thank you Ma'am for the kind words.

Mistress Shane: Purging Thoughts

nospam@example.com (Mistress Shane) — Wed, 04 Jul 2012 20:19:13 -0600

I was very touched by your purging post. My slave & I have been married 13 yrs. BDSM & crossdressing has always been a part of him. It is how he is hard wired. It would not surprise you how much courage it took him to tell me about any part of his desires (we meet at work 14+ yrs ago). The more hints he dropped, the more research I did online (uhhhgg dial-up lol), the more and more interested I got. We for sure have had our ups & downs. With an ass ton to deep heart to heart conversations we have solidified our BDSM relationship as well as our marriage. Before we got together he had tried purging all of his desires and toys and clothes a couple of times. With loving trust & guidance & acceptance from me he is in a much better place. Your Mistress and you are as lucky as we are to have found each other. Keep your chin up, always be true to yourself (not always easy I know, keep love in your heart and to hell with everyone else.

tia: It don't matter if you're black or white

nospam@example.com (tia) — Mon, 04 Jun 2012 15:41:37 -0600

Mistress talks like this ALL the time, just in case you were wondering

Erisiana Cherie: It don't matter if you're black or white

nospam@example.com (Erisiana Cherie) — Mon, 04 Jun 2012 10:25:36 -0600

When engaging in more philosophical discussions about porn I always find myself wanting to point out to everyone that we could just as easily - and more accurately! - use the word "archetype" in place of the negative "stereotype". Because that's really what we are dealing with: the "people" in most of our sexual fantasies aren't people at all, they are symbols representing things which, for whatever reason, push our buttons.

And in most of the interracial-themed forced bi/cuckolding porn I've encountered the black guy pretty clearly represents the hugely-endowed stallion who's able to satisfy the wife where the sissy's tiny penis cannot. However untrue this image of black-manhood may be for real, everyday black guys it takes a severe twisting of logic to say that it's a negative image.

I also think that those persons who're obsessed with finding e.g. racism in interracial or sexism in forced-fem porn are rather missing the point. Personally, I find it much more interesting to examine the reasons why a man's psyche would attach erotic power to themes that un-man him. Why is it so important, so erotic, to the cuckold fetishist that his own penis be belittled so?

Once the erotic end has been fixed - the fetishist's desire to cast his own genitalia as useless and insignificant - the use of the "big black cock" archetype to accomplish this end is rather obvious; it's a well established symbol in our culture. And what else are our subconscious minds supposed to use but the symbols already present in our culture? Asking them to do otherwise would be like asking a person born and raised in France to suddenly speak Swahili, just because it was more politically correct to do so.

Matt Thornton: Tia's 1st Video!

nospam@example.com (Matt Thornton) — Thu, 17 May 2012 23:29:22 -0600

That is so hot.

Sometimes Spanked: Happy Birthdayversary! (breaking him in)

nospam@example.com (Sometimes Spanked) — Sun, 25 Mar 2012 07:08:43 -0600

Omg.... what an amazing day you set up!! I'm tenting my panties!